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Sexual intimacy issues should be addressed with what can be called verbal modesty, not offensive and rude words, I think the lack of modesty in the way I dress and talk is wrong, that’s what will guide the way I speak.
- These questions are legitimate.
- I have no problem answering these kinds of questions.
- It’s a difficult and delicate issue.
- But no problem.
- People want a biblical direction.
- So I will strive to respond with biblical wisdom.
First, I guess the problem is just for married people who give this advice. Outside of marriage, I don’t think that’s true. We can talk about it in more detail at a later time, but the short answer is this: the ugnation seems to be even more intimate and delicate than copulation, we know it because even married people wonder if they can do it. It’s like a step of intimacy that can be inappropriate even for married couples, so to think that it can be an innocent substitute for copulation, so that people can obey the letter of the law outside of marriage, is an illusion. That’s the first observation.
In marriage I would say this: if the ugnation is bad, I can think of four possible reasons why it is considered bad, I will say what they are and then I will ask the following question: “Are these four things?Number 1”. , it would be a mistake if it were forbidden in the Bible; number 2, would be incorrect if it were not natural; number 3, it would be an error if it caused harm to health; and number 4, it would be wrong if it was cruel. So let’s see one at a time.
Number 1, I do not believe that oral sex is explicitly prohibited in any of the biblical commandments. If it is forbidden by the Bible, it should be based on principle, not an explicit mandate.
Number 2, is this a practice that’s not natural?It is complicated Male and female genitalia are so clearly made for each other that there is a natural fit or a beauty. What about oral sex? This may lead me to conclude that it is not natural, but I do not rush to this conclusion because of what Solomon’s Proverbs and Songs say about a woman’s breasts. What I’m going to say is an analogy, so think about it. It seems to me that there is nothing more natural than a baby curled up in his mother’s arms, breastfeeding his breasts. That’s what they’re for. They are designed to breastfeed babies.
So is there anything physically natural about a husband’s fascination with his wife’s breasts?Well, you might say, “No, that’s not what breasts are for. “But Proverbs 5:19 says, “Turn your breasts back at all times; and always get drunk on his caresses?And Singing of Songs 7:7-8 is even more explicit. The woman is said to be saying, “Your port is similar to the palm tree, and your breasts are like her curls. ” I’ll go to the palm tree, take their branches. Do your breasts look like vine curls?.
I agree? Although there’s not much anatomical correlation between a man’s hands or lips and his wife’s breasts, does that really seem to be?Natural? In another sense, that is, in the inherent pleasure and desire that God, in His Word, seems to recommend. for our pleasure in marriage.
So I ask: are there similar desires for oral sex or other forms of sex?So I don’t think we should limit the couple based on the idea that it’s not natural. It’s risky, but that’s my position on the question of naturalness.
Number 3, does it affect your health? Well, it may be the case, if there are sexually transmitted diseases, and it can be done in a harmful way, so the couple must be very honest and careful, not take risks that lack love, which leads to the fourth reason. , 4.
Is that insensitive? I think that’s the most sensitive point on the subject and that’s the point that has the most impact. Will you pressure your spouse to have oral sex if he finds it unpleasant?If you do, you’re insensitive. It’s a sin to be insensitive. Ephesians 4:32: “Be kind to one another. “The key word here is “Press”. I know that 1 Corinthians 7: 4 says: “A woman has no power over her own body, but her husband has power; and also, in the same way, the husband has no power over his own body. “, but the wife?, and the context of this passage refers to sex.
So, in practice, what does that mean? Well, that means husband and wife can say to each other, “I’d like to. “And you both have the right to say:? I wouldn’t want to. And in a good marriage, in a biblically beautiful marriage, one seeks to be more benign than the other. These are the principles that I believe should serve as a parameter for the Christian couple on this issue of oral sex.