Introduction
It’s not easy being a kid these days. It may never have been easy, but today the challenges young people who want to remain holy seem more difficult than ever. You live in a time when culture seems to have something to do with sex. always around you and you can hardly avoid their seduction.
- Wherever you go.
- You face temptations and.
- If you’re like most kids.
- You’ve already started giving in.
- Maybe you’ve just started watching porn.
- Maybe you’ve been there for years.
- You might have a hard time masturbating not wanting to give yourself that pleasure.
- But it may have cost you a lot more than you imagined stopping.
- You may have discovered that.
- More than ever.
- Sex fills your mind and has an impact on your heart.
Is this series of items specially designed for young men?Those who are not yet married, but who hope to marry in the future. Maybe you’re not dating or maybe you’ve already met the woman of your dreams and you’re about to get married. get married and build a life together. Perhaps the woman of her dreams seems to be still a long way off. Whatever your situation, I want to use these articles to help you discover God’s plan for sex and sexuality. I want to help you find the lies you believed about sex and I want to help you replace them with the truth, which comes directly from God, who created sex for us.
? PORNIFIER? THE MARITAL BED
I always thank God for growing up in the years leading up to the Internet entering every home, I don’t know if I had handled it very well, not that he’s old, but my thirty-three years mean he was born and raised in a pre-Internet world. How has the world changed since the Web has linked us all in this strange and complex network of bits and bytes?There’s hardly a mastery of life that stays intact. We no longer have the same old world () Internet. We have a whole new world. Even flesh-and-blood things, like sex, have changed radically in this digital world.
Teenagers in the ’90s (when I was little) weren’t very different from today’s teenagers.
We wanted the same things, we just had to work a little harder to get some of them. If we wanted to watch pornography (and we did, of course), the process usually involved at least two children working together, one of whom was distracted by a shopkeeper, while the other tried to steal a magazine from the shelf at the back of the store, I had to take a magazine off the shelf, hide it in their pants and leave the store unnoticed , it was dangerous, it involved high risks. If there is a problem, this could easily lead to a really unpleasant encounter between your parents and the police. Times have changed.
Today, as you know, a man only needs to turn on his computer and with two or three clicks of the mouse he can have unlimited access to unlimited amounts of pornography. Today, it is much more difficult to avoid pornography than to find it. Literally, it would be impossible for one person to watch all the pornography that is created today. There would not be enough hours in the day or days in the year. Not even close. Needless to say, teenagers? guys in particular? they rush to enjoy this pornographic vacation. Even pre-teen kids are drawn to the world of porn. From the first awakening of a child’s sexuality, it has been inundated with pornographic images. These are not just photographs of naked women as they would have been two generations ago, but they are very strong photographs, often showing what is vile and degrading. Isn’t the sexuality of an entire generation of children determined by conversations with their parents, not by the kind of book I received when I was young, but by professionals in the sex industry? pornography, who will do something? whatever is! ? to feed the desire for greater depravity.
That’s the true nature of sin, isn’t it?Sin is progressive in nature. If you give him an inch, he immediately asks you to make a mile. Sin is never satisfied, but it seeks and desires more and more.
Has your sin ever scared you? Perhaps there was a time when you saw how a particular sin was invading you. You thought you were in control of your sin, but suddenly discovered that, in almost an instant, he had moved to the next level. In control, sin had begun to dictate the path and you were increasingly resigned to walking, obeying the impulses of the flesh. It’s a horrible place and I think everyone has experienced it at one time or another.
I know without a doubt that many young men (middle-aged and elderly) can testify to the power of pornography to dominate the person. Can the first glimpse of porn be fleeting ?, intriguing, but short-lived. A naked body is all the eye needs to see and provides all the fuel for a time. But before long, the heart yearns for more. What was once satisfying is now boring, what was crude before suddenly becomes desirable. Along the way, the general perception of a person’s gender changes. It is no longer the simple sexual relationship between a man and a woman, instead, it becomes a series of acts, even acts that are, in a way, uncomfortable or degrading. Pornography teaches that sex is anything but an intimate person-to-person relationship, a contact between the soul-bodies of the willing spouses. And, as they say, life soon imitates “art. ” Young people marry with heads full of pornographic images and hearts full of desire to perform pornographic fantasies.
Not long ago, I read an article written by a woman who considered herself a feminist. She insisted that she liked to sleep with men and sometimes she considered sleeping with a continuous succession of men. However, she shared what was a growing concern for her. Increasingly, she said, the men she slept with had no real interest in her. They just wanted me to act like a porn actress for their benefit. They only used it to represent their pornography. There was no tenderness, no desire for shared intimacy, and certainly no love. They simply used their bodies as a means to an immediate end. This, he saw, was very quickly becoming a new rule. She was disgusted with that, but realized that her feminist vision provided no real recourse, no effective way to explain her disgust, her discomfort. What seemed clear was that a generation of men, drowned in a cesspool of pornography, have a new set of expectations about what they want from women. They want women to submit to acting like porn stars. Women are used, feeling little more than prostitutes.
In the bestseller SuperFreakonomics, Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner spend almost an entire chapter researching the economy of prostitution. They make many interesting observations, one of which is based on relative price comparisons between sexual acts in the past and sexual acts today. It seems that the taboo nature of certain acts has always provided a certain advantage. Taboo is a moving target. What was banned in the past and therefore expensive, is now so popular that the price has dropped considerably. Something that was the most expensive act today is among the cheapest. Acts that were previously taboo due to their extremely intimate or vulgar and degrading nature are accepted as legitimate forms of sexual expression in any relationship. By any other standard, what would be considered?Normal, now it’s very undesirable, very boring. Therefore, it has been replaced by the invasive and degrading.
Pornography is inherently violent, inherently immaculate; it is a perversion of sexuality, not a true form of sexuality, and something that teaches violence and degradation at the expense of mutual pleasure and intimacy. These are achievements. It is the opposite of God’s intention for sex. Pornography separates love from sex, leaving sex as the immediate satisfaction of the most basic desires. He lives beyond rules, ethics, and morality. It exists far beyond love. And yet countless young people, even young Christians, come to the wedding with all this pornographic background, after seeing thousands of sexual acts on a pornographic stage, weigh on their wives waiting to have a porn actress. The young husband assumes or demands that his wife be willing to do anything, that he do all this with the joy and encouragement that he is owed, and that he will be as willing, willing and qualified as the women he has seen on a screen.
My greatest concern for today’s youth (which is actually more of a concern for women who will soon be their young wives) perhaps inadvertently, or perhaps intentionally: the marital bed. They can bring impurity to pure, selfishness to altruism. Having dedicated themselves to pornography, they have seen all their perception of sexuality, shaped by professional pornography, change. Soon they will be able to impose on their girlfriends the impossible expectation of an X star. The vast majority of young people who have been exposed to pornography (at least 90% according to recent studies), and a large percentage of them who have been addicted, and many benefit even after they are married, must have their understanding and expectations redefined according to the one who created sex.
When a person becomes addicted, he has to go through a process called detoxification, in the process of detoxification the body of the person gets rid of the drug from which he has become dependent, it is a difficult process in which the old realities are abandoned and a new rule is adopted.
Many young people need some kind of sexual detoxification before they are ready to be the kind of pure, loving, loving, and sacrificed husband god calls them to be. In this small pamphlet, specifically aimed at young single or committed people, or looking to meet This special woman, in the near future, I hope to help them reorient their understanding of sex, both on the big picture and on the spot itself, according to God’s plan for this great gift. I’m going to help you detox from all the crap you’ve seen, all the lies you’ve believed in.