Last week’s article, “10 Men A Christian Woman Shouldn’t Marry?”It went viral. More than 1. 2 million people have shared the link [N. T. : The Original Link] so far, probably because many single men and women are seriously looking for directions to find a good partner.
One of the answers I received was many requests for similar referrals for men looking for a wife. Since I have been advising several men today and have seen some of them get married in recent years, it has not been difficult to draw Here are some women I tell my spiritual children to avoid:
- 1.
- The disbeliever.
- In the last article.
- I reminded women that the Bible is absolutely clear on this point: Christians should not marry non-believers.
- 2 Corinthians 6.
- 14 says: “Do not unequally join the unbelievers; because what society can be between justice and wickedness?Or what communion.
- Light and darkness ??.
- Apart from the decision to follow Christ.
- Marriage is the most important decision you can make.
- Make no mistake in ignoring the obvious.
- You need a woman who loves Jesus more than she loves you.
- Put spiritual maturity at the top of her list of qualities she desires in a woman.
I was dating a girl from a very wealthy family. She saved money for months to buy a ring, but when she proposed, she said she had to go back to jewelry and buy a bigger diamond. She forced her fiancé to borrow because of a ring that met her expectations. I wanted a Tiffany lifestyle on a C budget
3. La diva. Some male boys like to hang out and act like they’re superior to women. Divas are the female version of this nightmare. They believe the world revolves around them and they don’t hesitate to hurt someone to prove their point. His words are harsh and his snaps on his fingers to demand all sorts of things are irrational. Some of these women may end up taking leadership positions in the church, but don’t be fooled by their super faith speech. True leaders are humble. If you don’t see divine humility in the woman you’re dating, step back and keep looking.
4- Delilah, remember Samson?, was anointed by God with superhuman strength, but lost her powers when an attractive woman discovered her secret and gave her man the most famous haircut in history, such as Delilah, a woman who does not subject her sexuality to God will blind her with her charm, break her heart and derail you. If the woman? Christian, you met at church, you dress provocatively, you flirt with other kids, you post sexually inappropriate comments on Facebook or you say you don’t see sexual problems before marriage, get out of this relationship before you fall into your trap.
5. La woman would be sorry. A young man recently told me that he was dating a girl who had serious resentment problems in her heart due to past injuries. “Before I asked her to marry me, my fiancée said she needed to take care of her. “leave it, but there has been significant progress and now we will get married. “This boy realized that unresolved bitterness can ruin a marriage. Proverbs 21. 9 says that “it is better to live in the corner of the ceiling than with the woman hanging in the same house. “If the woman you’re dating dives into anger and lack of forgiveness, your life will be ruined by endless fighting, slams and drama. He insists on praying together and seeking counsel from more experienced people in the faith.
6. La parent company. Marriage is a fifty percent society, and the only way it works is when husband and wife submit to each other in terms of Ephesians 5. 21. Just as some young people think they can accept marriage as if it were a dictatorship, some women try to manipulate decisions to fulfill their desires. That’s why preenptial counseling is so important!He doesn’t want to wait two weeks until he’s married to know that his wife doesn’t trust you and wants to make all the decisions on his own. [N. doE. : We don’t know what the author understood by husband and wife submitting to each other. If it is the doctrine of mutual submission that proposes equal roles for men and women in marriage, we disagree. However, due to fidelity to translation, we kept the sentence]
7. La’s little girl. It is normal for a newlywed woman to call her mother for advice and support, it is not normal for her to talk to her five times a day about all the details of the marriage, including sex, that is strange. However, I have counseled children whose wives allow their mothers (or fathers) to have full control over their lives. Genesis 2:24 says that a man must leave his parents and live with his wife. Parents should observe their children’s marriage since if their girlfriend is not trying to cut the umbilical cord, proceed with caution.
8. The addict. Today, many people in the church have not been properly disciplined. Are there still many who struggle with all kinds of addictions (alcohol, illegal drugs, prescription drugs or pornography?), either because we do not confront these sins from the pulpit or because we offer a sufficiently compassionate attitude. support for those who go through them. Jesus can completely free someone from these habits, but you should not wait until you are married to discover that your wife cannot be sober. You might even get married in the future, but it’s not advisable to group the lots until you’ve seriously addressed this kind of problem.
The best rule to follow when choosing a wife is in Proverbs 31. 30: “Grace deceives and beauty deceives, but the woman who fears the Lord will be praised. “Look beyond the external qualities that, according to the world, are important, and look at the heart.