Your desire to have sex with your loved one is not bad, it would be a different problem to worry about if you didn’t want to, the key is that the desire to glorify Christ must be greater than the desire to have sex. the ones you love.
2. La key to making the desire to glorify Christ greater than the desire to have sex is that this decision must be made repeatedly.
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- People who are in a serious relationship demonstrate their best behavior.
- Therefore.
- Whatever this behavior.
- We can expect it to “get worse” over time.
- As intimacy increases.
- People tend to let their guard down.
- Marriage doesn’t solve the problem.
- Bad behavior.
- But it gives you more freedom to show up.
- Girls.
- If your boyfriend controls you.
- Distrusts you.
- Manipulates you or degrades you.
- It will get worse and won’t get better.
- For the duration of your relationship.
- Or the things you forget now.
- Will become increasingly obvious and difficult to ignore for the duration of your relationship.
- You won’t be able to fix it and the marriage won’t fix it.
4. Almost all Christians I know who have married a non-Christian declare their love for their spouse and do not regret marrying; however, they experienced deep suffering and discontent with their marriage because of this unequal yoke, and today they would not advise a Christian to marry someone who is not.
5. Considering that you are special and different, and that the experiences of others do not reflect your own, it is a small, silly and arrogant vision, people who love you and warn you / advise you about your relationship can be ignorant. they’re people like that. But his parents, his shepherds, his long-time friends, are much more likely to be wiser than he thinks.
Living together before marriage is a factor that can end your marriage.
7. Prepuptial sex does not encourage a child to grow up, take responsibility, and run their home and family.
8. Preputing sex hurts a girl’s heart, perhaps imperceptibly at first, but certainly over time, as it exchanges the benefits of an alliance, but without the safety of it. That’s not how God wanted sex to bring us satisfaction. your body to a man who has not promised you total fidelity to God in the covenant means to be accountable to a local church. Anyway, don’t give your heart to a man who is not responsible to someone who gives him divinity. Discipline.
9. All your relationships, including your romantic relationship, have a greater purpose of glorifying Jesus than of giving you personal satisfaction. When the highest priority in our relationships is personal satisfaction, ironically, we end up being totally dissatisfied.
You are loved by God with abundant grace through Christ’s redemptive work, and this love that surrounds us through faith in Jesus gives us the power and satisfaction of the Holy Spirit to seek relationships that honor God and, through them, increase our joy.